Meltdowns

Topics: Triggers, de-escalation, violence & aggression, getting support

Probably the number one question from parents and carers – how do I manage meltdowns? Understanding your own and your child’s emotions and triggers, so you can respond differently and try to avoid things escalating into violence and aggression, is a great place to start.

Explore our resources for essential information on how to manage meltdowns, reduce violence and restore calm and become better equipped to deal with aggression, if and when it happens.

How do I stay calm when my child is having a meltdown?

"How do I stop myself from getting drawn in when my child is having a meltdown?" This week in a Connective Parenting® NVR session, a parent asked me this question.  It’s a great question and one I thought I’d answer here as I know it something that a lot of parents,...

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Meltdowns
Reward
Do rewards work?
Do rewards work?

Rewards are a topic I'm asked about a lot.  They are used throughout society as way of encouraging people to take certain actions, and as we know they are an age old parenting strategy.  The problem with them is that they don't always change the behaviour in the...

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Learning how to de-escalate
Learning how to de-escalate

When your child starts escalating, try and stay calm. I know it's not always easy, I certainly don't always manage it, but it is very effective at reducing meltdowns.  Learning how to de-escalate situations calmly and quickly can be one of the hardest parts of NVR...

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Prioritising the challenges
Prioritising the challenges

Before I became a parent I decided I didn't want to be a nag.  It used to drive me nuts when I mum constantly asked me to do something (sorry mum!).  If I'd just got on and done it, she wouldn't have had to nag but as a child that logic didn't pop into my brain....

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